""it was estimated, quiet rightly, that, at least 9 times out of 10, it would be the boy who had more trouble controlling his sexual urges and he would be more likely the aggressor that was trying to initiate sex." In real life males and females, in the U.S. report nearly equal rates of sexual victimization, and most males report female perpetrators. https://malesurvivor.nz/wp-content/uploads/2018/08/StempleFloresMeyer2016femaleperpetators.pdf"