by sissynancyboy on Thu Jun 12, 2025 3:35 pm
I suspect thats a question that a lot of men and women would like answered. But I'm not sure if there is an easy fix for it. Your wife is what genetics, her parenting conditioning and life experience has made her. As my wife often reminds me, when we took our marriage vows I have to accept her and support her to be the person she is. Thats the choice we make and it's your choice too.
As an opening gambit though, tell her you've been thinking a lot about life etc and out of interest have you been a good husband? No doubt she will will ask you the same question and thats when you can bring up your question , as she maybe blissfully unaware of your frustation. It doesn't mean she will change to suit you, but at least she will know.